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The Race

WebPastor — Wed, 08 Jun 2011 19:13:34 +0000

“… let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us” (Hebrews 12:1 NIV).

Barcelona, Spain 1992 Olympics

Derek Redmond was one of the best. His awards were many and included World Silver and Gold Medals in the 400m and 4 x 400m competitions. He had trained and prepared for the 1992 Olympics. He knew the risks. As an athlete in the 1988 Olympics an Achilles tendon injury forced him to withdraw only a few moments before the race.

Four years and five surgeries later, he was determined to medal in the 400. Barcelona would be his opportunity. No matter what, he would finish strong. During each qualifying race, Derek ran well, recording the fastest time of the first round and winning his quarter-final heat.

Jim Redmond, his father watched in anticipation as Derek settled into the starting blocks for the semi-final race. Derek got off to a clean start and quickly took the lead. His win looked imminent. Then the unthinkable happened. With a pop, his right hamstring muscle tore, and he fell to the ground in agony. Jim, seeing his son in trouble raced from the top row of the stands.

Determined to finish, Derek lifted himself to his feet, his leg quivering, and ever so slowly, hobbled down the track, waving away the oncoming medical personnel. He limped onward, his tear-stained face twisted in agony. The race now over, the crowd of 65,000 rose to their feet and began to cheer. The volume louder and louder as Redmond, in searing pain took one painful step at a time.

His father finally reached the bottom of the stands, leapt over the railing, and with two security officers chasing after him, ran to help. “I’m here, son,” Jim said softly, as he hugged his boy. “We’ll finish together.” Sobbing, Derek placed his arm around his father’s shoulders.

Arm in arm, they continued their painful journey. Just before the finish, Jim released Derek. He completed the course on his own. The crowd in total frenzy responded with a standing ovation. With tears in his eyes, Jim Redmond told the press afterwards. “I’m the proudest father alive. I’m prouder of him than I would have been if he had won the gold medal.”

Derek Redmond’s name will be remembered long after records are broken and medals tarnish. He persevered, and with his father’s help, finished strong.

We too are in a race—the race of life. Our Heavenly Father is our ever-present help. He will never leave or forsake us. He will hold us close, welcoming us home as we cross our final finish line.

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith” (2 Timothy 4:7 NIV).

Lisa Buffaloe is a madly in love with God, Christ-follower, happily-married, mom, writer/blogger/speaker. God has helped her through molestation by a baby-sitter, assault, rape, divorce, cancer, death, seven surgeries, and years of chronic illness due to Lyme Disease. For more information, please visit http://www.lisabuffaloe.com/

Alive in Christ Radio Liner Notes :: 060711

WebPastor — Wed, 08 Jun 2011 19:07:39 +0000

Alive in Christ LIVE Radio :: Radio Liner Notes :: Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Main Show Topic: Christian Essentials: Justified Anger
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Is anger acceptable? If so: When is anger acceptable? How is anger acceptable? Why would anger be acceptable? Can anger be used to do good; to glorify God?

What does God specifically and intimately teach us about anger? What might anger lead us to do? What causes us to become angry? How do wise people best deal with anger? What about God’s anger?

What are the dangers of anger-ridden words? In one way or another, we all face situations and circumstances that can make us boiling mad. We have all heard of anger management, in fact, there are scores of books, television shows, and even motion pictures that depict how anger can get the best of us; or certainly bring out the worst. When anger is used inappropriately, much irreparable damage can occur. When anger is applied appropriately, great things can be achieved.

You will be pleasantly surprised at what you will discover on this unique edition of Alive in Christ Radio.

In the next 2 hours, we will learn how God’s truth in dealing with anger is the only way, the only truth, and the ultimate life.

Special Guest: Lisa Buffaloe, Christian Author. Lisa shares how God brought her and her family up out of a past of deliberating circumstances. Her God-inspired testimony adds new meaning to God’s precept, “Don’t be afraid, just stand still and watch the LORD rescue you today” Exodus 14:13.

We round out our program with features including Joyce Meyer’s “Everyday Moments”, Focus on the Family’s Plugged-In Movie Review and Focus on the Family Minute, Beth Moore’s “A Quick Word”, Luis Palau’s “Reaching Your World”, and Dave Ramsey’s “Daily Money Makeover.”

“The harvest is great, but the workers are few.” Matthew 9:37

We round out our program with features including Joyce Meyer’s “Everyday Moments”, Focus on the family’s Plugged-In Movie Review and Focus on the Family Minute, Beth Moore’s “A Quick Word”, Luis Palau’s “Reaching Your World”, and Dave Ramsey’s “Daily Money Makeover.”

On this edition of Alive in Christ, Christian Discipleship Ministries’ Founder, Tony Marino and Lynn Kennedy explore life’s guidelines verses His “God-lines”, and will it be “your way”, or “Yahweh?” We invite you to join us.

On this episode we will learn to, “let go and let God.”

“The harvest is great, but the workers are few.” Matthew 9:37

Alive in Christ Radio LIVE || In-Studio Guest: Lisa Buffaloe

Lisa Buffaloe is an avid blogger, writer, and speaker. She’s an active member of several writing organizations and critique groups, leads Bible studies, and has spoken to writer and women’s groups.

Her past experiences—molestation by a baby-sitter, assault, rape by a doctor, divorce, being stalked, cancer, death of loved ones, seven surgeries, and chronic illness from Lyme Disease—bless her with a backdrop to share with others God’s amazing promises. God’s love is unending, and through Him we find healing, restoration, and renewal.

Eight of her devotions will be featured in The One Year Book of Joy and Laughter, by Tyndale House Publishing (Fall 2011). Her articles have appeared in Guideposts Online magazine, Angels on Earth magazine, Rest Ministries, The Christian Pulse, Christian Fiction Online magazine and various other sites.

Her manuscript, Nadia’s Hope, placed as a finalist in the 2011 Women of Faith writing contest, placed as runner-up in the 2010 American Christian Fiction Writer’s (ACFW) Genesis Contest, and won Best of Conference Award for Adult Novel at the 2007 North Texas Christian Writer’s Conference. Her manuscript, Prodigal Nights placed second in the 2010 Great Expectations Contest, and the 2008 North Texas Christian Writer’s Conference.

Lisa is represented by literary agent, Tamela Hancock Murray of The Steve Laube Agency.

Lisa and her husband are Board Members for Gospel Harvesters International

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Alive in Christ Radio LIVE || Christian Book of the Week:
Author: Gary Chapman
Title: Anger, Handling a Powerful Emotion in a Healthy way

Description: A relative makes a tactless comment about your child’s weight. The guy behind you on the expressway follows too closely. Your wife lets the gas tank go down to empty…again. We live in an angry society. From road rage to workplace incidents to marital bickering, out-of-control anger is all around us. How can we handle our anger–and help those we love with theirs? How can we teach our children to deal with their anger? And what about those long-simmering feelings of anger toward people in our past? What’s the difference between “bad” and “good” anger? Bestselling author and relationship expert Dr. Gary Chapman offers helpful–and sometimes surprising–insights on why we get angry, what we can do about it, and how we can use anger for good. Includes a 13-session discussion guide perfect for small groups, workplace studies, and book clubs. Each chapter ends with reflection questions.

About the Author:
GARY CHAPMAN is the author of the bestselling Five Love Languages series and the director of Marriage and Family Life Consultants, Inc. Gary travels the world presenting seminars, and his radio program airs on more than 400 stations. For more information, visit www.garychapman.org

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Today’s Holy Bible Passages:
Ephesians 4:30-31, Mark 10:14, Matthew 23:13-36, Galatians 5:19, 5:21, Ecclesiastes 7:9, Romans 1:18-31, Colossians 3:8-9, 1 Timothy 2:8, Proverbs 29:22, Hebrews 12:15, Proverbs 22:8, Proverbs 27:4, Proverbs 21:19, Proverbs 22:24, Proverbs 24:25, Proverbs 29:2, Amos 1:11, Ephesians 4:2, Psalm 4, 2 Samuel 18:5, Numbers 25:4, Numbers 32:14, Deuteronomy 29:20, Judges 3:8, Judges 10:7, Judges 2:14, Judges 2:20, 2 Kings 24:20, Lamenations 4:16, Eremiah 4:8, Jeremiah 4:25, Jeremiah 4:37, Jeremiah 30:24, Zephaniah 2:2-3, Psalm 2:5, 2 Chronicles 28:11, Ezra 10:14, Psalm 78:31, John 3:36, Romans 1:18, Ephesians 5:6, Colossians 3:6, Revelation 14:10, 14:19, 15:1, 15:7, 16:1, 19:15, 1 John 1:9.

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Love Is Not Self-Seeking

WebPastor — Sat, 04 Jun 2011 05:50:31 +0000

This is the seventh blog in this series on love according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Giving Ourselves To God

We may think to not be self-seeking means that we have to please everyone. The Bible tells us to deny ourselves and lay down our lives for others, but if we learn from Jesus’ example, He didn’t live to please everyone. He lived to please God by doing His will, which was for the benefit of everyone.

In order to lay down our lives for the benefit of others we have to first lay down our will and submit it over to God. 2 Corinthians 5:15 says, “And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.”

After trying everything I possibly could, I hit a point in my life where I gave up and basically said to God, “Here I am Lord. If You can do anything with my life and have anything planned for me, I’m all Yours.” I stopped trying to plan my life and stopped seeking my own will, and that is when I opened the door for God to live His will through me.

As we give ourselves to God, He works His love in us and enables us to love others. 1 John 4:7-8 says, “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.”

Being married and having four young children who constantly need my attention, sometimes I feel like all I do is give of myself and at the end of the day there’s nothing left in me. I’ve learned that I need to spend time daily with God and allow Him to continually fill me with His love in order to keep giving myself to others.

We can’t give something that we don’t have. We can’t give ourselves to others when we’re spiritually empty. Jesus often went without food to keep preaching and meeting the needs of others, but He never neglected His relationship with God as we see in Luke 5:16, “But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.”

We will just be left spiritually and emotionally drained if we keep trying to do things for others without allowing God to work His love in us. We need to take the time to spend with God and allow Him to fill us with His love in order to share it with others.

Giving Ourselves To Others

As we commit ourselves over to God we can focus on loving others. God wants to fulfill our needs and desires while using us to bless others. I’m amazed at seeing how God meets my needs when He prompts me to commit whatever I’m facing over to Him and moves me to meet someone else’s need.

About a year ago, my husband and I were both hit with car trouble four consecutive times in a row. We would drop off one car to be fixed and then something would happen to the other and then we’d have to keep switching them out. By the fourth time my car needed to be fixed, my husband suggested that we wait since it was still drivable, and we had spent all we had on the other repairs.

A short time later, as the problem continued, I started to fall into self-pity. God quickly humbled me by informing me of a couple I knew who had gone through an extremely rough year, financially, emotionally, and physically. My problems didn’t even compare to what they had been through. I was moved by their situation and eagerly wanted to reach out and help them. I asked my husband even though I wasn’t sure we could even afford it. My husband was for it so I knew God was moving us to help them and He’d take care of us.

After reaching out to them, I got into my car to go home. When I turned on the ignition I instantly noticed the problem was gone. I was just amazed at how God took care of us while using us to take care of someone else.

God wants to meet our needs and bless us, but when our minds are on ourselves we miss out on what God has for us and miss out on meeting the needs of others.

There are many different ways God wants to use us to meet people’s needs. When we follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit He will show us what people need. Like Jesus, sometimes what God prompts us to do won’t necessarily make us feel good or please others, but it will be what is needed.

I had to do something for someone one time that was very difficult. I actually prayed for God not to have me do it because I knew this person wouldn’t respond well. Nevertheless, I ended up laying down my will and obeying God. And even though this person wasn’t happy with me, I eventually saw the changes God brought about in their life. This showed me that it was truly for their benefit.

People will not always approve of us, but when we lay down our needs for others, and seek God’s will, lives will truly be changed, ours included!

This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. 1 John 3:16

Amanda Beth is a wife and mother of four children, and author of an upcoming book titled: YOU CAN HAVE A HAPPY FAMILY Steps to Enjoying Your Marriage and Children. She has been married for 14 years and has experienced transformation in her life and marriage since she surrendered her heart to Christ ten years ago. http://www.amandabeth.net/

Alive in Christ Radio Liner Notes :: 053111

WebPastor — Wed, 01 Jun 2011 06:15:51 +0000

Alive in Christ LIVE Radio :: Radio Liner Notes :: Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Main Show Topic: Breaking the Bondage of Despair
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Despair is defined as suffering without meaning. Our past instances of grief, turmoil, poor choices, and pain do not have to dictate how we live today or for tomorrow.

Jesus did not promise that this life would be a rose garden. He has made it perfectly clear that we would suffer through trials and temptations, but by His strength, encouragement, and hope, we can endure. By His stripes, we are healed. “But he was pierced for our rebellion, crushed for our sins. He was beaten so we could be whole. He was whipped so we could be healed (Isaiah 53:5). The devil wants you bound to a life of despair. Let us accept and receive God’s grace, mercy, and blessing by knowing that we deserve to be set free in the glorious name of Christ Jesus.

You will be pleasantly surprised at what you will discover on this unique edition of Alive in Christ Radio.

In just 2 short hours, you will learn that the answers and remedies to living a life free of despair is only as far as God. In the next 2 hours, will learn how God’s truth is the only way, the only truth, and the ultimate life.

Special Guest: Deborah Lovett, Founder of Women of the Well Ministries. Deborah shares how God brought her and her family up out of devastating circumstances. Her God-inspired testimony adds new meaning to the precept, “What the enemy meant for evil, God meant for good!”

“The harvest is great, but the workers are few.” Matthew 9:37

On this episode we will learn to, “let go and let God.”

“The harvest is great, but the workers are few.” Matthew 9:37

Alive in Christ Radio LIVE || In-Studio Guest: Deborah Lovett

Deborah Lovett is a speaker for Women’s Events, Retreats, and Conferences. She is also a wife, mother of one daughter, one son, and an author. Her speaking has been noted as “genuine, open, contagious, and like fresh water to the soul.” Her inviting spirit draws women in~ allowing them to experience God’s love in a non-judgmental way. God has called her~ beyond a shadow of a doubt ~to equip women– person-by-person, city-by-city. She desires to educate women on how to ADVANCE to overflowing with an authentic joyful faith that attracts others to Jesus.

She has written several articles for the Alliance Life Magazine, and is the author of Gushing Springs, a Bible Study on the “Woman at the Well”. She has aired on local radio and shared the Gospel in: Ohio, Michigan, Florida, Missouri, Maryland, Kentucky, Illinois, Indiana, Pennsylvania, New Jersey and Alabama, with further hopes of sharing it around the world!

Born on a sunny, Easter Sunday, Deborah knows that there is indeed no Easter Sunday without a Good Friday. She has endured trials, hardships and sufferings that have allowed her to see the Glory of the Lord, and have imparted an unshakeable faith to her. After her sister took her own life, God gave Deb a heart to see women live out their God-given destiny without fear. After her home burned to the ground, God showed her the importance of spiritual warfare through prayer—or as she puts it, “how to be On Guard!”

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Alive in Christ Radio LIVE || Christian Book of the Week:
Author: Jasmin O. Brown
Title: Bruised But Not Broken In Despair

Description: We have all been bruised or attacked by the enemy at some point in our lives. Bruised in our homes, in our marriages, finances, ministries, and in many other areas of our lives. Well, God wants you to know that the enemy bruises you because you are special. He is after the treasure that God has placed within your vessel of clay. He knows that as clay you are susceptible to bruises, and he knows that the only way to destroy the contents is to break the container. Therefore, if he applies enough pressure to your life, eventually you will break and lose your treasure. But we have news for him. We may be Bruised and sometimes broken but not to the point of Despair. We are not beyond repair. Our God is a specialist who specializes in bruised vessels. And He will make us over into better vessels.

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Today’s Holy Bible Passages:
Joshua 10:1-14, Psalm 42:5-11, Jeremiah 29:11, Matthew 7:7, John 15:4-8, Romans 8:31-39, 1 Peter 1:3-6.

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Love Is Not Rude

WebPastor — Sat, 28 May 2011 00:18:46 +0000

This is the sixth blog in this series on love according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

There are three ways we can convey rudeness. We do it either by our words, our attitude, or our actions.

Rude Remarks
It is foolish to belittle one’s neighbor; a sensible person keeps quiet.
Proverbs 11:12 NLT

Have you ever been in a conversation with someone and then suddenly you’re hit by a rude remark that was meant to purposely bring you down? Then shocked and hurt, it takes everything you have to keep from striking back?

I have been on both the giving and receiving end of rude remarks. There have been people I’ve dreaded being around because their harsh, critical spirit leaves me feeling completely belittled. Yet I can’t judge them because I’ve done the same thing to others.

In the past, if I saw something wrong with someone, I’d let them know by criticizing them with a rude comment, hoping it would open their eyes. Every time I did that the big plank in my eye continued to grow, blinding me even more from my own faults (Matthew 7:4-5).

Proverbs 18:21 says, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” We are walking around each day speaking death or life into the lives of those around us and reaping the fruit of it in our own lives.

James 3:6 says, The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. We reap what we sow. If we speak words of life that encourage and bless others, we will be encouraged and blessed in return.

Rude Attitude
Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.
Philippians 2:5

Our attitude causes us to be rude to others. If we don’t change our attitude we will continue to spew out fiery remarks. Just last week, as I was preparing this message, I had to get up three times to open the front door for my husband because he either forgot something or had something to tell me. I started to get annoyed and by the third time I was rolling my eyes and shaking my head.

God quickly convicted me that I was getting an attitude. If I hadn’t yielded to that conviction I would’ve been rude to my husband. If God hadn’t helped me stop it that morning, I would’ve held on to it through my day and it would’ve continued to affect my attitude.

Even if we don’t physically say anything rude, our attitude and our tone of voice can convey rudeness. Rolling our eyes, huffing under our breath, being sarcastic, complaining, and being impatient, all convey a rude attitude.

We need to pray for our attitude to be like Christ’s and live by His example.

I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.
John 13:15

Rude Actions
So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you…
Matthew 7:12

We don’t always have to have a bad attitude or say anything wrong to come off as rude. Our actions play just as important of a role. There are many things people do today that is just plain rude. Here’s just to name a few:

Do you borrow things from people but never return them? My mother literally returns everything that is not hers. She will even drive thirty minutes to my house just to drop off something I accidentally left at her house.

Do you park in a handicap spot when you have two perfectly well able legs to walk on? I remember as a teenager thinking it was so cool to take my friend’s dad’s car to the mall because he had a handicap sticker and we could get front row parking. I never thought about those who actually needed to be in the front row because of a handicap.

Do you interrupt people when they’re talking? Do you blurt out replies before listening to what they have to say? Proverbs 18:13 says, answering before listening is both stupid and rude (MSG). I am so guilty of this verse that I even find myself replying to an email before I’m done reading it.

Do you ever make promises and not follow through with them? People highly respect those who are reliable and trustworthy. It’s nice to have people you can truly count on to do what they say they are going to do, and to be there when they say they are going to be there.

Do you ignore the “Please RSVP” when you receive an invitation? I have had parties where I ran out of food because people showed up that never told me they were coming. I have also had parties where I had a lot of food leftover because those who said they were coming never showed up.

Do you ignore someone because you don’t want to tell them no? When I was researching the publishing industry I was amazed at how many people I had inquired for information that completely ignored me. I found such respect for those who took the time to answer me even when it was just to say, “Sorry, I cannot help you.”

We should think about others in every situation and do to them as we would want them to do to us. This is how we truly love others, by showing consideration and thinking of them.

For everyone looks out for his own interests, not those of Jesus Christ.
Philippians 2:21

“Sold-out” or “Selling-out?”

WebPastor — Fri, 27 May 2011 21:00:34 +0000

“Still others, like seed sown among thorns, hear the word; but the worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful.” Mark 4:18-19

I have heard complaints that “some Christians” can get “too-spiritual.” Why, they even say, if you’re not careful you could take the Bible “too serious” or “literally.” There are reportedly even those, like Peter, who have gone “overboard” in their efforts to serve Jesus Christ. Surely God understands that we only have one life to live. That said; we should keep our commitment to His cause in moderation – while also enjoying life to the fullest. After all, that’s what this “amazing-grace” is all about; right? Wrong!

I guess I am one of those who “crossed-over.” Maybe, I read into this thing too deep. Perhaps, I am even in error for taking the words of Christ at face value. In my confusion; I thought that “All Christians” were to be spiritual. Perhaps, in my blindness, I perceived that all who bore His name were to live their lives as a living sacrifice and seek His pleasure before their own. I thought I was supposed to abstain from questionable things as an expression of commitment and love – as opposed to seeing what I can “dabble-in” and still get into heaven.

Jesus himself said; “If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.” Matthew 16:24

I have seen too many who have become consumed with the pursuit of life; the pursuit of the latest fad; pursuit of the latest technology and toys; even the pursuit of position, recognition, and the prideful praise of men. It seems that many people who complain about the sacrificial life of a “sold-out-believer,” are not really opposed to the pursuit of a cause; just the cause of the pursuit. I have concluded; some people are so “Earthly-minded,” they are no “Heavenly-good.”

Maybe I will “catch-on” someday. Perhaps even “lighten up a bit,” as they say. I hope not though – I like making Christ the unquenchable obsession of my life.

Dwayne Harris is the founder of Fresh Outpouring Ministries, Inc. and is an Evangelist and Missionary. He is an Ordained Minister within the Church of God of Cleveland Tenn. and the speaker of the “Message in a Minute” web based devotional video series. For more information visit: http://www.freshoutpouring.com

Alive in Christ Radio Liner Notes :: 052411

WebPastor — Wed, 25 May 2011 05:10:29 +0000

Alive in Christ LIVE Radio :: Radio Liner Notes :: Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Main Show Topic: Christians of Convenience
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Has the world’s culture given rise to Christians of convenience?

Why is there so much distrust, hatred, blame, and pointing the finger swirling around the world?

Why have we as Christ-followers, become Christ-posers?

What is the reason why Christians attend church?

Why has the Holy Bible taken a back seat to everybody’s everything else? How does God feel about all this? How might we truly draw nearer to God before all else?

You will be pleasantly surprised at what you will discover on this unique edition of Alive in Christ Radio.

In just 2 short hours, you will learn that the answers and remedies to Christian confusion is only as far as God. In the next 2 hours, will learn how to make right choices as God’s truth is revealed.

Special Guest: Matthew Botsford, Founder of Seeds of Love Ministry. We talk spiritual warfare as Matthew recalls a gun shot wound to the head, the pronouncement of his death, his personal visit to hell, and his redemption and restoration by grace and mercy of almighty God.

We round out our program with features including Joyce Meyer’s “Everyday Moments”, Focus on the family’s Plugged-In Movie Review and Focus on the Family Minute as well as a the Short feature from Luis Palau entitled, “Reaching Your World with Luis Palau.”

On this episode we will learn to, “let go and let God.”

“The harvest is great, but the workers are few.” Matthew 9:37

Join us as we present answers to these tough questions. Your evolving relationship with God depends upon it. On this edition of Alive in Christ we address these and other all-important kingdom issues.

On this edition of Alive in Christ, Christian Discipleship Ministries’ founder, Tony Marino and Lynn Kennedy explore life’s guidelines verses His “God-lines”, and will it be “your way”, or “Yahweh?” We invite you to join us.

Alive in Christ Radio LIVE || In-Studio Guest: Matthew Botsford
Matthew and Nancy Botsford are ordained ministers of the Lord through Morningstar Fellowship Churches. Seeds of Love is also affiliated with Toronto Airport Christian Fellowship by means of Friends In Harvest. After frequently visiting TACF post the 1994 outpouring the Botsford’s were led to form Seeds of Love Ministry in 2004 with the express intent of expanding the Kingdom of God to the ends of the Earth through preaching and teaching the undiluted Word of God holding fast to their Rev 12:11 mandate; “..and they overcame the enemy by the Blood of the Lamb and the word of their testimony and they did not love their lives to the death”. Signs and Wonders often follow and is evidence of their alignment with the Heavenly Commissions(FIRE Values) of PIH/FIH Network and most importantly the Word of God. They are called to an evangelistic style of ministry both domestically and abroad.

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Focus on the Family || Focus on the Family Minute || Plugged-In Movie Review
Luis Palau || Reaching Your World with Luis Palau
Beth Moore || A Quick Word

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Andrew Thomas
Iona Leigh
Desmond Pringle

Alive in Christ Radio LIVE || Christian Book of the Week:
Author: Nancy Botsford
A Day in Hell
Nine-millimeter shots rang out from every direction. The shooter stood on the corner of the cracked concrete sidewalk. He squeezed the trigger of an Uzi machine gun, anger pumping through his veins, spraying bullets into the crowd outside of the building. Matthew was hit from behind, the 9 mm bullet piercing the back of his head, instantly knocking him to the ground… dead. A Day in Hell is the riveting, true-life account of one man’s descent to the bowels of hell after dying from a gunshot wound to the head in March of 1992, and the true, wholehearted prayer of love by his newly wedded wife. Matthew survived, waking up twenty-seven days later. Unbeknownst to all those surrounding him, God had pulled him from his cell in hell and said, ‘It’s not your time.’ A Day in Hell is a story flooded with hope and inspiration as this young couple figures out how to plot their new life.

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Love Is Not Proud

WebPastor — Sat, 21 May 2011 01:17:32 +0000

This is the fifth blog in this series on love according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Pride is something that we all struggle with because it basically comes down to not submitting to God’s authority in some area of our life.

The Bible gives us many warnings against pride and the repercussions it brings. I will only focus on a few but I encourage you to study it on your own asking God to show you and help you in the areas you struggle with pride.

Pride Deceives

When I worked as a server at a restaurant, I waited on a family one time that appeared to be very wealthy. While the father stepped away from the table the family cautioned me to do everything he requested perfectly and on time. They basically told me he was not to be disappointed at all.

I instantly felt intimidated and was on edge the entire time I waited on them. After they left I thought how deceived this man was. He thought because of his wealth he was higher than anyone else and deserved absolute perfection. Galatians 6:3 says,

“If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself.”

Pride blinds us of our true value and the value of others. When we’re caught in pride, we inflate our value and devalue others. When in reality we all have the same value. No one in this world is greater or less than anyone. Galatians 3:28 says, “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” The smartest, most successful man in the world is no different than a homeless drug-addict in God’s eyes. We’re all sinners and Christ died for every one of us.

When we measure ourselves to others we will either feed our own pride or tear ourselves down. When we see ourselves and others as God sees us, we will keep from thinking we’re better than or inferior to others. 2 Corinthians 10:12 says, “Oh, don’t worry; we wouldn’t dare say that we are as wonderful as these other men who tell you how important they are! But they are only comparing themselves with each other, using themselves as the standard of measurement. How ignorant!” (NLT)

Pride Destroys

Pride is what led to Satan’s destruction. If he could become prideful after knowing God in His full glory, then how much more susceptible are we to pride. In 1Timothy 3:6, as Paul was giving warning against putting a new convert in the position of an overseer of the church, He stated, “he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil.”

When we fall into pride, we stand against God who opposes the proud. When we ignore God and try to handle our life on our own, we open the door to Satan’s deception and influence. He deceives us by telling us we don’t need God so He can drag us down with him. Proverbs 16:18 says,

“Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.”

Whenever I fall into pride, thinking I’m so wise, God humbles me by allowing me to fall. This opens my eyes to see my weaknesses, and it reminds me that I can do nothing without God. I am absolutely nothing without Him.

Praise God that even though we do fall, He is always there waiting to help us when we’re ready to humble ourselves and accept His help. Proverbs 24:16 says, “The godly may trip seven times, but they will get up again. But one disaster is enough to overthrow the wicked.” (NLT) “Godly” means “righteous.” We are made righteous when we receive Jesus. Without Jesus, we have nothing to protect us when we fall.

Pride Humiliates

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve acted in pride and found out later that it only made me look stupid. Those who are caught in pride are blinded from reality. Everyone else but them can see their folly.

This is one of the reasons why God tells us to listen to advice, because when we’re caught in pride we don’t see our own faults. Proverbs 13:10 says, “Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.”

God will often try to reach and humble us through others. If we don’t humble ourselves, we’ll continue to make a fool of ourselves. Proverbs 19:20 says, “Listen to advice and accept instruction, and in the end you will be wise.”

Loving God Keeps Us Humble

Sometimes I think the more we grow with Christ, the more tendencies we have to fall into pride. We have to be careful that we don’t start thinking we’re holier than others and forgetting that it’s God who sanctifies us, not us. 1 Corinthians 4:7 says, “For who makes you different from anyone else? What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not?”

Those who are proud and compare their sins to others, instead of to God’s Holiness, will not be merciful to others. Pride does not promote love, it tears people down. We can’t love others when we think we’re better than them.

1 Corinthians 8:1-3 says, “…of course we know that all of us possess knowledge [concerning these matters. Yet mere] knowledge causes people to be puffed up (to bear themselves loftily and be proud), but love (affection and goodwill and benevolence) edifies and builds up and encourages one to grow [to his full stature].

If anyone imagines that he has come to know and understand much [of divine things, without love], he does not yet perceive and recognize and understand as strongly and clearly, nor has he become as intimately acquainted with anything as he ought or as is necessary.

But if one loves God truly [with affectionate reverence, prompt obedience, and grateful recognition of His blessing], he is known by God [recognized as worthy of His intimacy and love, and he is owned by Him].” (AMP)

All the knowledge and wisdom we receive from God does us nothing if we don’t love others. People aren’t interested in how much we know, they’re looking for true genuine love, the kind of love that only God can give. We have to love God in order to love others. As this verse says, to love God is to have reverence for Him, to be obedient to Him, and to be grateful for what He has given us.

I’ve found the best way for me to stay out of pride is to be continually filled with praise and awe of what God has done in my life. Just remembering where I used to be, and where I still should be, and seeing where He has taken me, fills my heart with gratitude and keeps me humble. We often think about all that God has not done for us instead of praising Him for all that He has done.

We can see this in Luke 17, where Jesus healed ten men of leprosy. Only one of them, when he saw he was healed, came back praising God and threw himself at Jesus’ feet in thanksgiving. In verse 17-18 Jesus asked, “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? Was no one found to return and give praise to God except this foreigner?”

Also in 2 Chronicles 32:24-31, we see King Hezekiah’s pride. Verse 24-26 says, “In those days Hezekiah became ill and was at the point of death. He prayed to the Lord, who answered him and gave him a miraculous sign. But Hezekiah’s heart was proud and he did not respond to the kindness shown him; therefore the Lord’s wrath was on him and on Judah and Jerusalem. Then Hezekiah repented of the pride of his heart, as did the people of Jerusalem; therefore the Lord’s wrath did not come upon them during the days of Hezekiah.”

God does so much for us that He deserves our utmost respect and praise. Praise keeps us humble because it keeps us focused on God and not ourselves. When our hearts are filled with gratitude toward God we will stay out of pride.

Amanda Daubenmeyer is a wife and mother of four children, and author of an upcoming book titled: YOU CAN HAVE A HAPPY FAMILY Steps to Enjoying Your Marriage and Children. She has been married for 14 years and has experienced transformation in her life and marriage since she surrendered her heart to Christ ten years ago. http://www.amandadaubenmeyer.com/

Love Does Not Boast

WebPastor — Fri, 13 May 2011 19:20:50 +0000

This is the fourth blog in this series on love according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

“Love does not boast” happens to be a popular saying in our household. Whenever one of my kids receives something special, or praise for doing good, they immediately run to tell their siblings. The siblings then get jealous and tell the one who is bragging not to boast. They usually then come running to my husband or me and squeal on the one who is boasting.

It’s hard not to boast. When we’re excited about something, we want to run and tell everyone. But just like with my kids, not everyone is going to share in our excitement. So does this mean we should never share anything good with anyone?

At one time, I made my mind up that I was not going to talk about anything that had to do with me when I was conversing with someone. This went okay for the first ten minutes, but when they’d ask about me, I’d give a quick reply and switch the conversation back to them. This made it uncomfortable for me and the one I was conversing with. I’d have to come up with a bunch of questions for them and they would have to focus on themselves by answering all my questions. This actually made me force people to boast about themselves.

It didn’t take long for me to learn that there has to be a balance and boasting is not completely wrong. 2 Corinthians 10:13 says,

“We, however, will not boast beyond proper limits, but will confine our boasting to the field God has assigned to us, a field that reaches even to you.”

Verses 17-18 say, “But, ‘Let him who boasts boast in the Lord.’ For it is not the one who commends himself who is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends.”

I learned that boasting about the things I produce by my own effort only leads to pride. Whereas, boasting about the things the Lord produces in and through me, that will benefit others, leads to glorifying and praising God. If no one ever shared how God has worked in their life, we would never be motivated to press on and take hold of all that God has for us. It blesses me to hear how God works in others, because I know that He has no favorites. If I hear that He is working in your life, then I know He will work in mine. This kind of boasting stirs people’s faith. The other kind of boasting stirs nothing but our own pride.

This doesn’t mean we share with everyone everything God does for us. The Apostle Paul set an example for us to learn the proper limits of boasting. In 2 Corinthians 12:1-6 he stated,

“I must go on boasting. Although there is nothing to be gained, I will go on to visions and revelations from the Lord. I know a man in Christ who fourteen years ago was caught up to the third heaven. Whether it was in the body or out of the body I do not know—God knows. And I know that this man—whether in the body or apart from the body I do not know, but God knows—was caught up to paradise. He heard inexpressible things, things that man is not permitted to tell. I will boast about a man like that, but I will not boast about myself, except about my weaknesses. Even if I should choose to boast, I would not be a fool, because I would be speaking the truth. But I refrain, so no one will think more of me than is warranted by what I do or say.”

Paul boasted in others and only things in himself that would benefit others. Even though he could boast about all the marvelous revelations he received from God, and be telling the truth, he still chose to refrain himself so that people wouldn’t think higher of him than they ought.

Not everyone wants to hear about all the good God is doing in our lives. We need to be sensitive to those we are conversing with and know when to refrain ourselves when we’re around those who don’t want to hear it.

When God called me to step out and write my first book on marriage, I was so excited that I wanted to tell everyone. I quickly found out that everyone wouldn’t share my excitement. This only brought me down and did nothing to help others.

A friend told me recently that God warns us about sharing our visions with everyone. It only hurts us and feeds other people’s envy and jealousy, as we can learn from the story of Joseph. He didn’t act wisely by sharing his dream with his brothers and father in Genesis 37, even though his heart was right and he was telling the truth.

2 Corinthians 11:30 says, “If I must boast, I will boast of the things that show my weakness.” Instead of sharing only the good God was doing in my life, I should’ve shared all the attacks and testing that came along with the great blessing. I should’ve shared how many times I fell and wanted to give up during that time. I should’ve shared how my marriage was tested to the point where I felt I was completely unqualified to teach anyone anything about marriage.

When we share our weaknesses and trials along with our blessings, it helps others relate because no one walks through life continually blessed and free of trials. When we only share our good, it makes others wonder what they’re doing wrong. Our weaknesses help others to know that they are not alone. I learn the most from those who share their struggles and how God worked in those struggles.

Thus says the Lord: Let not the wise and skillful person glory and boast in his wisdom and skill; let not the mighty and powerful person glory and boast in his strength and power; let not the person who is rich [in physical gratification and earthly wealth] glory and boast in his [temporal satisfactions and earthly] riches;

But let him who glories glory in this: that he understands and knows Me [personally and practically, directly discerning and recognizing My character], that I am the Lord, Who practices loving-kindness, judgment, and righteousness in the earth, for in these things I delight, says the Lord. Jeremiah 9:23-24 (AMP)

Let us not bring glory to ourselves. Let us boast about the things of the Lord that will benefit others and bring glory to God!

Alive in Christ Radio Liner Notes :: 051011

WebPastor — Wed, 11 May 2011 05:08:25 +0000

Alive in Christ Radio :: Radio Liner Notes :: Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Main Show Topic: Christian Essentials: Conquering Fear
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On the surface, you are the BIG man or woman on campus; deep down, you are scared out of your wits! When we were little, phantoms like the Boogieman in the closet or the monster under the bed kept us on high alert with light on and calling out for mommy every 3 minutes.

Now that we are all grown up, or least we are expected to be, why are we still wrestling with fear? Are we to just pretend that we are brave and courageous while still hiding from all those “things that go bump in your life?”

How can we break free of fear once and for all? Is it even authentically possible? Resoundingly, the answer is, “YES!”

You will be pleasantly surprised at what you will discover on this unique edition of Alive in Christ Radio.

Special Guest: Christian Music Artist and CEO of Women of Substance Radio (WOSRadio.com), Bree Noble.

Special Features: Focus on the Family’s Plugged In Movie Review and Family Minute, Joyce Meyer’s Everyday Moments, and Luis Palau’s Reaching Your World.

Alive in Christ Radio || In-Studio Guest: Bree Noble
Bree Noble lives in Alta Loma, CA with her husband Chris, who is an English Professor at Azusa Pacific University. They are the proud parents of an 8 year old daughter, Julia, and a 2 1/2 year old girl, Abigail. Bree holds degrees in Vocal Performance and Business from Westmont College in Santa Barbara. She has combined her love of music and her business savvy to create an Internet radio station called Women of Substance Radio-WOSRadio.com-that plays music by the best known and unknown female artists. Bree has received songwriting awards in the Dallas Songwriting Contest and the Great American Song Competition. Bree had the honor of singing the National Anthem to a sold out crowd at Dodger Stadium. In 2007, Bree was named Best Female Performer at the Inland Empire Music Awards.

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Alive in Christ Radio || Christian Book of the Week:
Author: Max Lucado
Fearless: Imagine Your Life Without Fear
Fear seems to be in the driver’s seat these days. People are troubled and anxious. Finances are tumbling, rockets are launching, and seemingly solid institutions are teetering. It’s tough for folks to know where to turn.

Two years ago I began writing a new book entitled Fearless. Little did I know then what we’d be facing now, but God did. The book examines Jesus’ statements about fear and encourages us to take heart in difficult times.

The antidote to the fear epidemic? Trust. If we trust God more, we can fear less. What a comforting promise.

-Max Lucado

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Alive in Christ Radio Liner Notes :: 050311

WebPastor — Tue, 03 May 2011 22:38:56 +0000

Alive in Christ Radio :: Radio Liner Notes :: Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Main Show Topic: Christian Essentials: Worrying for Nothing
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So, why do we spend 70% of our days in worry? What are we afraid of? What is it that (or who) scares us so?

You will be pleasantly surprised at what you will discover on this unique edition of Alive in Christ Radio.

Special Guest: Certified Raw & Living Foods Gourmet Chef, Donna Wilson

Special Features: Focus on the Family’s Plugged In Movie Review and Family Minute, Joyce Meyer’s Everyday Moments, and Luis Palau’s Reaching Your World.

Alive in Christ Radio || In-Studio Guest: Donna Wilson
After over 20 years of success in the corporate world, Donna Wilson suffered a personal health crisis which resulted in her researching natural healing methods. Once healed, energized & better than ever, it was apparent that her mission was to share & teach others to achieve optimal health through natural methods. She has been immersed in holistic health & nutrition research, study, health & weight loss coaching for more than 15 years.

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The Path: Creating Your Mission Statement for Work and for Life
The author of Jesus, CEO combines powerful spiritual insight and inspirational, practical advice on how to achieve one’s highest goals and potential in business and in life, discussing the three key elements of a successful mission statement and explaining how to fulfill a mission. Reprint. 75,000 first printing.

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Today’s Holy Bible Passages:
Psalm 10-11, Psalm 37, Matthew 5:11-12, Matthew 6:24-34, Matthew 10:16, Matthew 11:30, John 3:16, John 19:30, John 20:24-29, Galatians 5:22-23, Philippians 4:6-9, James 4:7.

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Love Does Not Envy

WebPastor — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 21:00:14 +0000

This is the third blog in this series on love according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

To be envious means to be discontent with who we are and what we have, and to be jealous of someone else and covet what they have.

The Amplified Bible defines envy as “an evil eye” because it is not of God, it is of the enemy. James 3:14-16 says, “But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.” When we allow envy into our hearts we open the door to the enemy and lead ourselves into deception.

I used to be constantly envious of others. If I saw someone wearing an outfit I liked or having a certain look I wanted, I’d be searching for that outfit and figuring out how to change my appearance. I remember buying eyebrow stencils that were shaped like my favorite movie stars’ brows because I wanted to look like them. I don’t know how I thought having their eyebrow shape would make me all of a sudden look like them. It actually did the opposite. It looked completely ridiculous on me.

I was young and naive and very insecure. I always had to have something that someone else had or had to be better than others to feel good about myself. I was in constant competition with others. I remember my husband and I even having car payments almost double our house payment because we wanted the best. We always had to have the latest and greatest new thing that was out, and when someone would have better, we would want it.

I look back now and see how much work and effort it was to keep up and stay ahead of everyone. How miserable it was for me to constantly live in discontentment. I praise God that He rescued me, changed my heart, and showed me my true identity and value in Christ. God has given me such freedom by teaching me how to be content with myself and not have to compete with others.

God doesn’t want us to be envious of anyone because He has something uniquely special for each and every one of us. We are each gifted and called to a special purpose. If we always want what someone else has, we will miss out on what God has for us.

I’ve found that most of the things I thought I had to have, and was envious of in others, I didn’t even want. Envy completely deceives and blinds us of our true heart’s desires. That’s why the Bible calls it an evil eye, because we don’t see the truth when we harbor envy in our hearts. We are looking through a distorted eye.

I could share with you story after story about how envy distorted the truth in my life. I chased after so many things that I never truly wanted because I was so blinded by envy. One example was when I was younger, before I knew Christ. During this time, I had been trying for many years to pursue a modeling career. People had told me since I was an early teen that I should be a model because of my height. As I got older, the more I heard it from people the more I wanted to pursue it. I did everything I could to pursue this career and spent a lot of time and money trying to make it happen.

Then one day, in my early twenties, I finally succeeded and got into an agency. When it actually came time to do it, and I learned I had to do all kinds of things to keep up my appearance and be ready to leave town when they wanted me to, I suddenly realized that modeling was not something I wanted to do. I had coveted it for so long that I never actually stopped to think about what it entailed.

Envy completely blinds and deceives us. It makes us think we need something that we actually don’t even want. Proverbs 14:30 says, “A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.”

Envy literally sucks the life out of us because it makes us never satisfied. I wasn’t satisfied when I finally succeeded and got into a modeling agency. I was actually mad that I wasted all that time and money chasing after something I never really wanted in the first place.

And I saw that all labor and all achievement spring from man’s envy of his neighbor. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind. Ecclesiastes 4:4

I remember the freedom I felt when I finally laid down everything I was chasing after and gave my will in exchange for God’s will. When I stopped wanting what others had I became free to be me. It is freedom not to have to prove ourselves to anyone and not to have to try and chase after things that will never end up satisfying us.

By being content with what God has given me, He has been able to bring out His true heart’s desires in me. I could never see those desires before because they were buried under envy, greed, and worldly lusts. I can honestly now look at others who succeed and be truly happy for them because I know I will succeed in whatever God’s will is for me. I don’t need to chase after what someone else has because I have my own purpose.

Last summer, God revealed several promises and plans He had for me. As I was believing Him for these promises, I saw someone else have an amazing breakthrough in the same area I was believing for. Instead of being envious, I sincerely felt happy for this person. As I was telling God how amazing it was that He did this for this person, I instantly heard Him say, “Wait until you see what I do for you!”

I know without a doubt that was God speaking to me because I wasn’t even thinking about my breakthrough. I was just happy for this person and amazed at seeing God work. I honestly don’t think I would’ve been able to hear from God had I been envious of them.

God is speaking His will to us but we won’t hear it if we are envious of others and chasing after things that are not for us. We need to lay down our will in exchange for His perfect will. That is the only way we will be truly satisfied with our lives.

God is speaking this to you today, “Wait until you see what I do for you!”

Let not your heart envy sinners: but be you in the fear of the LORD all the day long. Proverbs 23:17 AKJV

Alive in Christ Radio Liner Notes :: 042611

WebPastor — Wed, 27 Apr 2011 05:24:11 +0000

Alive in Christ Radio :: Radio Liner Notes :: Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Main Show Topic: Christian Essentials: Choices and Decisions
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What would a world without God look like?

Are you living like a “sheeple” trying to please others while your wheels are coming off?

What would be the consequences?

What fallout would there be?

Do you think you know?

The answer and the aftermath will surprise you.

In just 2 short hours, you are going to be given the opportunity to learn about your choices, your decisions, and how and what you choose will dramatically impact your eternity. Your fate is in your faith-decisions. In the next 2 hours, your every excuse will be eliminated as the truth is exposed. The time is now–how will YOU choose? Join us!

On this edition of Alive in Christ Radio our Christian music angle is directed at the music of George Vinson. George joins us LIVE to share his unique brand of faith-based rock and roll. Come join us and be blessed!

Alive in Christ Radio || In-Studio Guest: George Vinson
As a session musician for over 30 years, Nashville-area guitarist and producer George Vinson
has played for literally thousands of artists. He finally stepped to center stage with the release of “Spheres of Influence,” an eclectic compilation of original songs and instrumentals, as well as unique arrangements of covers. He’s been compared to David Gilmour, Steve Howe, and other guitar greats, and has taken his music around the world, from Ireland to Italy, and even as far as Japan and the Middle East. And while he loves to play with a full band, he is equally at home in cafes and house concerts.

George is currently at work on his long-awaited project titled “The Beautiful Wasteland”, a 6-song EP that deals with the trials & triumphs of being a Christ-follower, and the grace and truth to be found in the journey.

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Jessica Wright

Alive in Christ Radio || Christian Book of the Week:
Author: John C. Maxwell
The Choice is Yours: Today’s Decisions for the Rest of Your Life
Success or failure? Good or bad? Good or better? We make choices every day that impact us-and others-forever. The Choice is Yours helps readers recognize opportunities for making better decisions in 16 key aspects of life, such as “Attitude is a Choice” and “Character is a Choice.” Other topics to be addressed in Maxwell’s succinct style are: Commitment, Communication, Courage, Power, Initiative, Listening, Passion, Relationships, Responsibility, Self-discipline, Servanthood, Teachability, Morality, and Love.

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Today’s Holy Bible Passages:
Matthew 22:37-38; Luke 11:9, Luke 11:9, Romans 12, Colossians 3:15, 1 Thessalonians 3:7, 1 Timothy 1:12-16, James 1: 5-8, 1 John 4:4-21, Psalm 15, Psalm 23-26, Psalm 37:5-6, Proverbs 2:1-9, Proverbs 3:13-14, Proverbs 11:14, Proverbs 12:15.

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Your Only Hope

WebPastor — Mon, 25 Apr 2011 21:25:18 +0000

If you are not a Christ follower this may be the most important message you receive in your life. I don’t think anything happens by accident. If you happen to come across this website, and you have come to this page it is not just happenstance. I believe that you came here through God’s guidance.

Christians are not perfect people. Unfortunately in my experience I often meet many that turn off nonbelievers very quickly. I am sure that I may have slipped up and said the wrong things to people that I was trying to reach as well. But in reality all of that does not matter. What does matter is that Jesus is perfect and God, our Father, sent him to redeem us of our sins. Might sound complicated, and yes at one time it was to me as well. The Bible has many passages that support accepting Christ as your only way to God and eternity in heaven. If you are not a Bible believer, I strongly suggest you do due diligence and discover its validity. Many non-bible believers when presented with the facts are flabbergasted as to the authenticity of the Bible. I have heard people say “Why did I not discover this 10 years ago!” It’s amazing that if you truly seek the truth, what you will discover. One book that helped me navigate the authenticity of the Bible is The New Evidence That Demands a Verdict, and the best book that will inspire you with the truth of Christ is The Case for Christ.

A few passages that have always kept me grounded as a Christian are from the book of John:

John 3:16-18 (NIV) For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.

Do you have an “Eternity Contract”?
The term “Eternity Contract” is used by some (like me!) Christ Followers that have accepted Christ as their savior. The contract is between the person and God. You accept Christ – and God will grant you eternity in heaven with him.
Receiving an Eternity Contract is not complicated. The problem is Religion has made it complicated through the intervention of man. Many religious denominations added to the Bible for their convenience. Receiving an Eternity Contract requires that you whole heartedly surrender your life to Christ, something you may have done already but did not do so outwardly through a prayer to God. A good example of surrendering yourself to God is using the Sinners Prayer, see below:

Sinner’s Prayer – Recognizing the Need
The “Sinner’s Prayer” is a term that describes the words spoken by a person when he or she has recognized their sin and their need for a relationship with God through Jesus Christ. It goes something like this:

“Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ, died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.”
Life as a Christ Follower

If you decided to repent of your sins and receive Christ today, welcome to God’s family. Now, as a way to grow closer to Him, the Bible tells us to follow up on our commitment.

• Tell someone else about your new faith in Christ.
• Spend time with God each day. It does not have to be a long period of time. Just develop the daily habit of praying to Him and reading His Word. Ask God to increase your faith and your understanding of the Bible.
• Seek fellowship with other followers of Jesus. Develop a group of believing friends to answer your questions and support you.
• Find a local Bible based church where you may worship and feel comfortable.

That’s it. That’s all that needs to be done. Once done, you’re good to go! Now the challenge is to continue to live a life that is honorable to God. But time and time again we will make mistakes, learn from those mistakes work to not repeat them and live a life reflective of Christ. As you grow in Christ you will develop stronger moral character and will make positive life choices.

Mark A. Griffin has over 20 years of Human Resources experience at “Fortune” as well as small and midsized companies, and has seen it all. Mark is outward in his faith and has developed a model on how you might best build “Kingdom Minded” organizations in today’s “politically correct” business world. Read Mark’s Spiritual journey here: http://inhisnamehr.com/about/spiritual-journey/ Let Mark inspire you to be bold and brave in your faith, by ensuring Christ is in your workplace. Visit Mark on the web at www.InHISNameHR.com Become a Fan of Mark’s on Facebook here: http://www.facebook.com/InHISNameHR

Love Is Kind

WebPastor — Fri, 22 Apr 2011 19:18:15 +0000

This is the second blog in this series on love according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

True kindness comes from mercy. Just as God displays His kindness toward us out of His great mercy for us, we need to be merciful to be kind to others. However, if we aren’t continually receiving God’s mercy for ourselves, our hearts will not be merciful to others. We can’t convey true kindness without having a merciful heart.

Colossians 3:12 says, “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”

We can’t put on something that we don’t have. If we don’t believe we are made holy by Jesus, and unconditionally loved by God, then we won’t be able to put on any of these characteristics of love. If we are constantly thinking God is disappointed in us, we won’t be able to move forward in allowing Him to work in us. We may show acts of kindness toward others, but we won’t be able to truly feel mercy for them when we’re not being merciful with ourselves.

We need to look at ourselves as God sees us. When God looks at us, He sees HIS perfection in us. He sees what His power working in us can accomplish. Philippians 1:6 says, “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” And Psalm 138:8 says, “The LORD will accomplish what concerns me; Your loving kindness, O LORD, is everlasting; Do not forsake the works of Your hands.” (NASB)

If God sees us as patient, kind, and loving already, then it should encourage and motivate us to live up to that. We too often think about what a wretched sinner we are, when we should be thinking that we’re God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works.

When I’m always thinking about how bad I am, I find myself falling into sin because I’m so down on myself that I am easily led astray. I unconsciously live up to what I think about myself. I am a sinner so I live to that.

But when we see ourselves as God sees us, we will want to live up to it. It motivates us to live holy lives because we don’t have that constant feeling of failure. Galatians 5:13 says, “You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love.”

We don’t ever have to worry if we’re doing enough to please God. God has set us free because of His great mercy and love for us, so that we can show mercy and love for others.

Does this mean we should never feel sorrow for our sins? No, we are to confess and repent when we purposely do something wrong (1 John 1:9). But when God is working with us in an area, we don’t need to beat ourselves up every time we fall. When my baby was learning how to walk, I didn’t yell at him every time he fell. I just lifted him back up and encouraged him to keep trying. This is how God is with us. He doesn’t get mad at us whenever we fall. He lifts us back up and encourages and helps us to learn to walk in His Spirit.

Though he falls, he shall not be utterly cast down, for the Lord grasps his hand in support and upholds him. Psalm 37:24 AMP

We can look at the woman in Luke 7:37-38 who wet Jesus’ feet with her tears because of her sinful life. In verse 50, Jesus said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.” She didn’t continue to cling to His feet, nor did she run back to Him in tears every time she slipped up after that. She went away in peace that day knowing she was completely forgiven for her past, present, and future sins.

Verse 47 says, “Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven–for she loved much. But he who has been forgiven little loves little.” Only once we begin to grasp how much we have been forgiven for, will we be able to love others greatly. Once we realize how many times we have offended God and turned our hearts away from Him, we will have no excuse but to show mercy to others.

Our world needs to see true merciful kindness. There are not many people who are truly merciful, including, sadly, many Christians. You can’t dare make one mistake or say anything wrong or people will cut you off and turn their back on you. Or, better yet, when you actually do what is right, people will hate you even more because your loving-kindness convicts them of their own wrong doing. You can’t win either way with people.

Thank God that He’s not that way with us. He never gives up on us. He’s always merciful and kind to us. Isaiah 30:18 says, “Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you; he rises to show you compassion….”

We need to follow His example by being merciful and kind to everyone, including ourselves.

Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Ephesians 4:32

A Royal Wedding

WebPastor — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 17:15:32 +0000

You would have to be catatonic or on another plant to not know about the upcoming Royal Wedding between Prince William and Kate Middleton on Friday, April 29, 2011. The celebration begins at 11:00 AM London time and you can be sure it will be the biggest watched TV event of the year with an expected 2 billion viewers tuning in.

So what is the fascination with a royal wedding? Simply one word – romance. This is a true life fairy tale. This is Kings and Queens in the making, it is the Royal family and all that entails.

But we all know how real a fairy tale truly is. Many of you will remember when Prince Williams parents were married. That royal wedding, also dubbed a “fairy tale wedding,” took place when Charles, Prince of Wales wed Lady Diana Spenser, whom the press called, “Shy Di” at St. Paul’s Cathedral in London on the 29th of July 1981. The world watched as Diana turned from being a wall flower to a ravishing Princess whom millions tried to emulate. She was beautiful and had a sense of style and grace which matched her royal title.

But as the years passed, we saw the marriage fall apart and become riddled with affairs and betrayal. What seemed like a fairy tale had become such a nightmare that a once “Shy Di” suffered from bulimia and contemplated suicide. Ultimately as we all know that “perfect” union ended in divorce.

So if all the money, power and prestige is not enough to keep a marriage together, what is? And is there really any such thing as the “perfect marriage” or “fairy tale marriage?” I believe the only mature answer to this question is a resounding NO! But so many in society today strive to have all, do all, and be all. We base what our lives should look like by what we read in fictional novels and watch on TV or see in movies. Then when our spouse does not act like these characters, we get discouraged, angry or resentful wondering what we did wrong or if we married the wrong person.

Another huge detriment to a marriage is selfishness. Marriage requires a constant outpouring of self. Most divorces are caused by one or both partners insisting on having it their way or the highway. We have become such a throwaway society that even marriage is not longer sacred. We believe that if we are not getting OUR needs met by our significant other, THEY are the ones that need to change. We have become so self focused that we don’t even know the meaning of self sacrifice.

Being submissive has gotten a bad name due to the equal lib and women’s movements. As women we are told that if we get our husbands a cup of coffee in the morning that we are being submissive and taken advantage of. Yet wouldn’t you like the same from your spouse? What does gender have to do with it? Man has taken what God had intended for good and twisted it deceiving many and creating chaos. Ephesians 5:22-24 tells us,

“Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.”

Now this does not mean we are to allow ourselves to be treated poorly. In fact, the men have a huge expectation to live up to as well. In Ephesians 5:25-33 we go on to learn what is usually ignored by women’s rights activists and we learn what a husband’s responsibility is to his wife.

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— for we are members of his body. “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”

God has a perfect plan for marriage. He would never ask us to do anything that would harm us, nor would he allow someone else the right to harm or treat us poorly. We are commanded to submit to our husbands, but with that our husbands have the responsibility to love us as Christ loves the church. That is total and complete selfless love.

But as humans we live with a sin nature and though we strive for perfection we will never achieve it while we are in these fleshly bodies. But we can work every day to bless our spouses and to not expect perfect spouses or perfect marriages, but enjoy the perfect moments of our marriages. Our model should not be that of the Royal family, or even the family next door. We need to work on living as God would have us live. Only then do any of our marriages truly have a chance.

So go ahead, watch, and enjoy the celebration of the Royal wedding on TV. I plan to. But I will be constantly reminding myself of the blessings God has given me in my own life and family. And I will remember to keep my eyes focused on Jesus and live in this world, not of it.

Lynn
Lynn Kennedy
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Alive in Christ Radio Liner Notes :: 041911

WebPastor — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 06:18:54 +0000

Alive in Christ Radio :: Radio Liner Notes :: Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Main Show Topic: Christian Essentials: Freedom from Heartache
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Are you living like a “sheeple” trying to please others while your wheels are coming off?

Do you find yourself living in anxious despair just circling the drain wondering when it will all end?

Do you keep making the same mistakes over and over and over and over and…..

Do you describe perfect moments as “my way or the highway”?

Do you feel like an actor in a bad b-rated movie surrounded by over dramatic characters i.e. family and friends, just waiting to see who is going to toss who under the bus next? It is hard living your life constantly looking over your shoulder wondering where your next spanking is coming from. Stop living on the edge, un cork-screw yourself from the ceiling and join us as we discuss solutions to our outrageous behavior and see what God has to say about it all.

Also joining us is Amanda Daubenmeyer who is a wife and mother of four children, and author of an upcoming book titled: YOU CAN HAVE A HAPPY FAMILY Steps to Enjoying Your Marriage and Children. Amanda will share highlights of her new book as well as some exciting new projects she is working when not chasing after her zany brood.

Alive in Christ Radio || In-Studio Guest: Amanda Daubenmeyer
Amanda Daubenmeyer is a wife and mother of four children, and author of an upcoming book titled: YOU CAN HAVE A HAPPY FAMILY Steps to Enjoying Your Marriage and Children. She has been married for 14 years and has experienced transformation in her life and marriage since she surrendered her heart to Christ ten years ago. She says,” I’ve learned from experience everything in God’s Word is for our own benefit. There are great reasons behind His commands”. Amanda feels blessed to be able to share these reasons every Monday on her website: Sharing the Truths Behind The TRUTH.

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Why Did This Happen to Me?: Finding God’s Strength Through Life’s Hurts and Heartaches
Is God faithful only to those Christians who seem to never make mistakes? Or is God’s faithfulness so deep, so far–reaching, so unfathomable that it extends especially to those who are least deserving of it? Well–known pastor and author Ray Pritchard leads readers to an awesome God who is faithful to those who are: defeated, fearful, dying, tempted, disobedient, This perfect gift for those in need of encouragement demonstrates how God’s faithfulness will finish His work in each believer and reach every generation, giving hope not only for the present but also for the future. Formerly titled The God You Can Trust.

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Love is Patient

WebPastor — Fri, 15 Apr 2011 18:57:22 +0000

This is the first blog in this series on love according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

The first description of love just so happens to be the one thing I struggle the most with. My husband would probably tell you if you looked up the antonym for patience you’d find my name. In fact, I remember rushing through a teaching one time on patience and having to go back over it and read it again. I’m impatient even when trying to learn about patience.

It’s not a coincidence this is the first thing used to describe love. God knows patience is something we all need help with.
When I used to lead women’s Bible studies in my home, one of the ladies asked us to pray for her to have patience. Everyone in the room quickly jumped and responded with “Oh no! You don’t want to pray for that! You’ll be tested!”

No one wants to be tested with patience because that means we’ll have to wait for something. However, I am learning that patience isn’t really about the waiting, it’s about our attitude we display while we’re waiting.I was actually tested in this area while studying for this message. I was in a hurry one day when I quickly stopped to get my kids something to eat through the drive-thru. After I drove away, I realized they forgot to give me one of the items I ordered. As I was grumbling over the fact that I had to go back and wait in the long drive-thru line when I was already running late, my daughter calls out from the back seat, “Mom, aren’t you studying patience this week?” I responded with a yes and asked her how she knew that. Her response was, “Because whenever you study patience you get impatient. Here my nine-year-old daughter can see when I’m being tested. It doesn’t feel too good when God humbles you through your children. However, it shows me that I obviously need to be tested because I keep failing in this area.

Colossians 1:11 says, “May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy.” (ESV)

If you think about it, we spend most of our life waiting, so we have many opportunities the devil can use to tempt us to lose our patience. We need to stand guard against these traps by keeping a good attitude, especially when something comes up unexpectedly.

I remember losing my patience one time when my husband said to me, “The devil is just laughing at you because you fell right into his trap.” That angered me that I was making the devil happy by my lack of self-control.

2 Peter 1:6, 8 in the Amplified Bible tells us… in [exercising] knowledge [develop] self-control, and in [exercising] self-control [develop] steadfastness (patience, endurance), and in [exercising] steadfastness [develop] godliness (piety)…For as these qualities are yours and increasingly abound in you, they will keep [you] from being idle or unfruitful unto the [full personal] knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One).

Self-control is one of the fruits of the Spirit God has given us (Galatians 5:22-23). When we exercise knowledge (discernment) in situations where we are tempted to lose our patience, the fruit of self-control starts to develop. We don’t instantly walk in self-control; it has to develop in us. The only way to develop it is through times of testing, where we have an opportunity to use it.

As we exercise self-control, we develop patience. The more we exercise it, the more it develops. When we develop patience, we will display godliness and then Christ’s love can be seen through us. This is why the devil works so hard to tempt us to lose our patience. We lose our self-control when we are impatient and we don’t walk in love.

Romans 5:3-4 in the Amplified Bible reads, Moreover [let us also be full of joy now!] let us exult and triumph in our troubles and rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that pressure and affliction and hardship produce patient and unswerving endurance. And endurance (fortitude) develops maturity of character (approved faith and tried integrity). And character [of this sort] produces [the habit of] joyful and confident hope of eternal salvation.

Trials produce patience. We should face each trial with joy because we know that it’ll produce endurance, which matures Jesus’ fruit in us. For example, I used to be insanely impatient with my husband and children. They couldn’t do anything wrong without me losing my patience.

I’d always try to change but I only seemed to get worse. I didn’t change until I actually learned that I had the fruit of self-control in me and I needed to allow God to develop it in me. This knowledge is what helped me in situations where I had to use self-control. At first, it wasn’t easy and I failed many times, but the more I leaned on God and kept working at it, the easier it became because His fruit of self-control started to develop in me.

The Holy Spirit’s fruit works the same as edible fruit. It starts as a seed, and as you feed and protect it, it eventually develops into fruit. When God is working on an area in me, at times it feels like it’s always going to be a struggle. Then one day I suddenly realize that it isn’t so hard because that fruit begins to develop.

We need to yield to the Holy Spirit whenever we get in a situation where we are tempted to lose our patience. The more we yield, the more fruit God can develop in us, and the more we will walk in love.

But let patience have her perfect work, that you may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.
James 1:4 AKJV

Alive in Christ Radio Liner Notes :: 041211

WebPastor — Wed, 13 Apr 2011 05:17:29 +0000

Alive in Christ Radio :: Radio Liner Notes :: Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Main Show Topic: God is Calling You: Are You Listening?
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Why can everyday life seem overwhelming?

Must we feel guilty for not being all things to all people?

Why does it appear that everywhere we go, more and more people seem to be in a bad mood?

Why are we so fearful and uncertain about tomorrow?

We’ve created a world that can be so consuming at times that all we want to do is bury ourselves in the bed covers and hide. Our lives have become so overscheduled and full of obligations that there is no time to focus on anything except making it through the day without totally losing it. Imagine the liberation of living a life spirit filled with hope, peace, joy, forgiveness and unfailing love. On this episode we will learn to “let go and let God.”

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Alive in Christ Radio Liner Notes :: 040511

WebPastor — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 05:06:48 +0000

Alive in Christ Radio :: Radio Liner Notes :: Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Main Show Topic: Christian Essentials: Why Must We Be Saved?
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How would you best define sin?

Has hiding a sin ever caught up with you?

Is sin unfair?

Have you ever prayed that you would be set free from sin?

What does the Holy Bible say?

You often hear the word sin, but do you really know what it means? What exactly is sin? And is it really fair? Why should an ill thought against our neighbor weigh as much as murder? Does God use a point system as a gauge to rate the degree of one sin over another? Perhaps you have suffered from a sin in the form of addiction and feel completely out of control. Can you still be set free and forgiven?

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